Savage Love
Savage Love: Jan. 4, 2024
I’m a 28-year-old woman and I’ve never had a boyfriend or sex. I didn’t focus on dating in order to prioritize my education, career...
Savage Love: Dec. 14, 2023
Please help. I saw an old boyfriend today and, based on our text communications about how much he wanted to be with me, I...
Savage Love: Dec. 7, 2023
It’s been a month since my great five-year-long relationship ended, and it’s my fault. We were both in our mid-forties, got along and had...
Savage Love: Nov. 28, 2023
About ten years ago, I was in a serious relationship with someone I loved more than I had ever loved anyone before. I hoped...
Savage Love: Nov. 09, 2023
Dear Dan: I have a question that is neither related to sex or relationships, but rather on the ethics of doing a theater project...
Footrubs and funerals
Dear Dan: Young, gay, gym member. A few years ago, I was alone in the sauna when this older guy asked if he could...
Done wrong
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Dear Dan: I’m a gay Black man in my...
Fair shares
Dear Dan: 42-year-old dad here. I’ve been married for 12 years, and my marriage has been somewhat turbulent. But after some affairs—one where my...
Quickies
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Q: At a party recently I was chatting with...
Schooled me once
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Dear Dan: I’m a 38-year-old cis het woman who...