Tag: advice
Savage Love: Feed your kink, not your partner
For the longest time I've been into the feederism kink. It’s specifically the weight gain aspect of this kink — making myself or others bigger...
Savage Love: The gay-straight alliance
We’re a straight couple in our forties. We have some very dear friends who are younger and queer, and we sometimes find ourselves giving...
Savage Love: That G.I. Joe kung-fu grip
From the beginning, my boyfriend has struggled to cum from PIV with me and has to jack himself off in order to climax. He...
Dear Whole Foods Daddy: July 2024
We all have questions and need advice, but sometimes the pseudo therapy in the Instagram stories of astrology girlies doesn’t cut it. Or maybe...
The healing potential of BDSM
I had a sexual experience that's left me feeling shitty. Met another gay man on an apps, got wasted together at a leather bar,...
Savage Love: June 20, 2024
1. What do you call a sibling’s child who uses they/them pronouns? Merriam-Webster is musing about nibling, which feels weird but might be the...
Savage Love: June 13, 2024
1. I hooked up during a lunch break. While I was sucking on a dude's titties with his encouragement, he started sucking on my...
Savage Love: June 6, 2024
1. Is pegging only for butts or can vaginas get pegged too?
When the term originated in my column — when my readers selected “pegging”...
Savage Love: May 30, 2024
I’m frustrated. I’m transmasc and use silicone “attachments.” My partner is assigned male at birth. Also relevant: We have very old hardwood floors, non-laminated.
For...
Savage Love: May 16, 2024
I was chatting with a couple of friends and the topic turned to clearing out a loved one's belongings after they've passed away and...
Savage Love: May 9, 2024
I’m a 33-year-old gay man emailing you because I have a kink that I enjoy but have always felt ashamed about. My kink is...
Savage Love: May 2, 2024
1. I’m 53-year-old straight woman. I’ve been talking with a guy online for three years — text, voice, video. I am in love with him....
