By Dan Savage - Feb. 29, 2024

Savage Love: Feb. 29, 2024

1. Best advice on dating without resorting to apps? Go places, do shit, meet people, fuck ‘em. 2. I’m about to visit a gay nudist resort for the first time,...

By Dan Savage - Feb. 22, 2024

Savage Love: Feb. 22, 2024

I’ve recently discovered that I am a panty sniffer. Though since I’m a gay man, maybe I’m a briefs breather? I discovered this when a fuck buddy left his shorts...

By Dan Savage - Feb. 15, 2024

Savage Love: Feb. 15, 2024

I am invited to a (gay) sex party. When invited for dinner, you bring a bottle of wine, but what is the proper etiquette for a sex party? Come showered...

By Dan Savage - Feb. 8, 2024

Savage Love: Feb. 8, 2024

A therapist suggested I might have “Relationship OCD.” While I haven’t been formally diagnosed, it rings true to me.  As soon as I get close to someone, I experience so...

By Dan Savage - Feb. 1, 2024

Savage Love: Feb. 1, 2024

1. How do you tell the difference between when someone says they love you in a platonic way and when someone says they love you in a romantic way?  Ask...

By Dan Savage - Jan. 25, 2024

Savage Love, Jan. 25, 2024

I was seeing this guy for about four months. We were pretty much dating, doing all of the normal boyfriend/girlfriend stuff. Everything was going great up until last night when...

By Dan Savage - Jan. 11, 2024

Savage Love: Jan. 11, 2024

My boyfriend recently broke up with me. He confessed that he has been battling an addiction to orgies and couldn’t show up for our relationship in the ways I needed...

By Dan Savage - Jan. 4, 2024

Savage Love: Jan. 4, 2024

I’m a 28-year-old woman and I’ve never had a boyfriend or sex. I didn’t focus on dating in order to prioritize my education, career and mental health. I am doing...