Savage Love
Hard feelings
Dear Dan: I keep running into the same issue with my best friend of five years. (She’s also my maid of honor at my...
Disclosed
Dear Dan: Garbage human here. I’ve had herpes for about 15 years. The first five years, I was in a relationship with a guy...
Best wishes
Dear Da: I’m a 43-year-old straight woman, and I spent the majority of my 30s celibate. At 40, I realized that while I wasn’t...
Quickies
Dear Dan: I’ve been with my boyfriend for a few months. Prior to dating, I was clear with him that I would need to...
The liked boys
Dear Dan: My best friend’s father is an avid user of social media. He’s retired and spends most of his day posting memes on...
Workmates
Dear Dan: When I first started dating my girlfriend, I asked her about past boyfriends and she said she hadn’t met the right guy...
Catfishing
Dear Dan: I’m a heteroflexible married cis woman in my 40s. I’m also a POS cheater and a catfish. I really fucked up. One...
Part and parting
Dear Dan: I’m an adult man, and I have developed a trans attraction after following a particular Tumblr blog. That blog is now gone,...
Revolution Hall
Savage Love Live stormed into Revolution Hall in Portland, Oregon. Comedian Corina Lucas absolutely killed it before our sold-out crowd, singer-songwriter Elisabeth Pixley-Fink performed...
Crazy switch Asians
Dear Dan: I’m a straight white woman in my early 30s. In theory, I’ve always been into men of all races — but in...
The sins of the grandfather
Dear Dan: My grandfather was a pillar of the community and beloved by his family. He was also sexually abusive. He died when I...
Loaded question
Dear Dan: Let’s say my kink is edging and I edge myself for a few days leading up to a date. Is it my...
