Savage Love
Is a diaper fetish always sexual?
Dear Dan: I’ve been dating a nice guy for a month or so. Sex is good, and we’re faulty compatible in other ways, too....
Game over
Dear Dan: Is it ever ok to stop being GGG?
I’ve been with my husband for 26 years. Shortly after we got together, my husband disclosed...
Cock locked
Dear Dan: I’m in a D/s relationship. I’m not submissive around the clock, but my partner owns my cock. We’ve purchased several male chastity...
My sex life is great, but… ; Gay cucks
Dear Dan: My husband and I have a pretty good sex life considering we are raising three kids, we both work full time, and...
Sissy that talk
Dear Dan: My boyfriend and I met online to explore our kinks. We’d both been in relationships with kink-shaming people who screwed with our...
Sex while separated; Demisexuality?
Dear Dan: My husband and I are currently separated on a trial basis. He took all our condoms when he moved out, and I...
Looking for some spanking recreation; Turned on by getting dumped?
Dear Dan: I’m a fan from way back. A therapist told me to go out and have some fun — I’m a married woman...
Ear sex?; Homeless fantasy sex?; Right context sex?
Dear Dan: About a year ago, I was pretending to read my boyfriend’s mind and jokingly said, “You want to put it in my...
Relationship and kink etiquette
Dear Dan: I’m a straight man and I recently got out of a relationship with a woman who would monitor my internet use to...
Where does religion fit in kink?
Dear Dan: I went to Dark Odyssey Winter Fire, the big kink hotel takeover event in Washington, D.C., in February. There was one thing...
Tumblr troubles; Enjoying my boyfriend
Dear Dan: I’m a gay male college student in a healthy D/s relationship with a bisexual guy. My boyfriend posts pictures of our kink...
Call me, maybe?; Bisexual cheating
Dear Dan: Longtime reader and listener (magnum podcast subscriber!) here, and I have a conundrum. My partner and I have a DADT agreement in...
