Savage Love
Put it in your spank bank, but don’t talk about it
Dear Dan:
I am quite the follower on social media — Facebook and Twitter in particular. I make no trolling comments, no #MAGA hashtags;...
Ear sex?; Homeless fantasy sex?; Right context sex?
Dear Dan: About a year ago, I was pretending to read my boyfriend’s mind and jokingly said, “You want to put it in my...
What do I tell the stripper?; Bye reader
Dear Dan: My partner and I have been playing with male chastity devices. We’ve been considering going to a strip club while his cock...
Finding the right match; Finding the right job title
Dear Dan: My brother is a virgin and turning 30 in a few weeks. He said he wants to hire an escort just for...
Answering the runoff
Earlier this month, we recorded our Savage Lovecast Christmas Spectacular live at Revolution Hall in Portland, Oregon. The audience submitted questions on tiny cards...
More feet; Understanding my attractions; Election blues
Dear Dan: I’m a 35-year-old man in a serious relationship — the best I’ve ever been in — with a girl I’ll likely marry....
Husbandry
Dear Dan: I’m a 44-year-old married gay male. I recently found out my 30-year-old husband has been sending dick pics to randoms on Grindr....
Getting back in the gay groove
Dear Dan: I’m a 37-year-old gay man who just got out of an abusive relationship. We were together five years, moved to Portland together,...
Quickies
Dear Dan: My boyfriend of almost two years is wonderful, and we have had very few issues. But there is one thing that has...
First-time buyer; Peaceful protesting
Dear Dan: Any advice for a first-time sex-toy buyer? I’m looking into vibrators, but I don’t want to spend a bunch of money on...
The mourning after in America
Dear Dan: I’m a longtime fan — reader and listener — and part of the 47 percent of white women who did NOT vote...
One two many Erins?
Dear Dan: I am a bi man in my late 20s in a poly relationship. My primary partner’s name is Erin. One of the...
