By Dan Savage - March 7,2024

Savage Love: March 7, 2024

I’m at the point in my life where I’m a caregiver for my parents and my partner. It’s exhausting. I don’t have an open relationship with my partner, although I’d...

By Rob Brezsny - March 7,2024

Astrology: March 7, 2024

ARIES (March 21-April 19): “Everyone has talent. What is rare is the courage to follow talent to the dark place where it leads.” So wrote Aries author Erica Jong. Is...

By Dan Savage - February 29,2024

Savage Love: Feb. 29, 2024

1. Best advice on dating without resorting to apps? Go places, do shit, meet people, fuck ‘em. 2. I’m about to visit a gay nudist resort for the first time,...

By Rob Brezsny - February 29,2024

Astrology: Feb. 29, 2024

ARIES (March 21-April 19): In my astrological estimation, the coming weeks will be an ideal time for you to declare amnesty, negotiate truces and shed long-simmering resentments. Other recommended activities:...

By Will Brendza - February 27,2024

Negative feedback system

In the U.S., 28 million people will suffer from an eating disorder in their lifetime, according to a Harvard study from 2020. Anorexia and bulimia nervosa disorders are the most...

By Dan Savage - February 22,2024

Savage Love: Feb. 22, 2024

I’ve recently discovered that I am a panty sniffer. Though since I’m a gay man, maybe I’m a briefs breather? I discovered this when a fuck buddy left his shorts...

By Rob Brezsny - February 22,2024

Astrology: Feb. 22, 2024

ARIES (March 21-April 19): Aries filmmaker Akira Kurosawa was one of the greats. In his 30 films, he crafted a reputation as a masterful storyteller. A key moment in his...

By Dan Savage - February 15,2024

Savage Love: Feb. 15, 2024

I am invited to a (gay) sex party. When invited for dinner, you bring a bottle of wine, but what is the proper etiquette for a sex party? Come showered...

By Rob Brezsny - February 15,2024

Astrology: Feb. 15, 2024

ARIES (March 21-April 19): Some stories don’t have a distinct and orderly beginning, middle and end. At any one point, it may be hard to know where you are. Other...

By Will Brendza - February 13,2024

Shroom seizures up 369%

According to the National Institute on Alcoholism and Alcohol Abuse (NIAAA), 62.8% (177 million) of Americans 12 and older used alcohol at least once in 2022. According to the Centers...

By Rob Brezsny - February 8,2024

Astrology: Feb. 8, 2024

ARIES (March 21-April 19): In honor of the Valentine season, and in accordance with astrological omens, I offer you a love letter from an unpublished novel by an Aries friend....

By Dan Savage - February 8,2024

Savage Love: Feb. 8, 2024

A therapist suggested I might have “Relationship OCD.” While I haven’t been formally diagnosed, it rings true to me.  As soon as I get close to someone, I experience so...

By Dan Savage - February 1,2024

Savage Love: Feb. 1, 2024

1. How do you tell the difference between when someone says they love you in a platonic way and when someone says they love you in a romantic way?  Ask...

By Rob Brezsny - February 1,2024

Astrology: Feb. 1, 2024

ARIES (March 21-April 19): “Happiness” is an amorphous term with a different meaning for everyone. What makes me feel happy may be unlike what works for you. Besides that, any...

By Will Brendza - January 30,2024

Mapping magic mushrooms

Alex Bradshaw has been on a mission to map the genomic diversity of psilocybe for years. He’s been determined to find out when these peculiar mushrooms started producing psilocybin — and...

By Dan Savage - January 25,2024

Savage Love, Jan. 25, 2024

I was seeing this guy for about four months. We were pretty much dating, doing all of the normal boyfriend/girlfriend stuff. Everything was going great up until last night when...

By Rob Brezsny - January 25,2024

Astrology, Jan. 25, 2024

ARIES (March 21-April 19): Aries author Dani Shapiro has published six novels, three bestselling memoirs, and a host of articles in major magazines. She co-founded a writer’s conference, teaches at...

By Will Brendza - January 23,2024

Smoke break

Employers in the U.S. cannot fire someone for partaking in legal drug or alcohol consumption, so long as it is done off hours and doesn’t affect their performance on the...

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