By Dan Savage - Mar. 28, 2024

Savage Love: March 28, 2024

I’m involved with a guy who’s married and, yes, I’m a cliché and I know it. I don’t want him to leave his wife. I don’t even want to be...

By Dan Savage - Mar. 21, 2024

Savage Love: March 21, 2024

Cis-het dude here in my 30s. I’ve had to spend several multi-month periods away from my wife over the last couple years for work. During the last long separation, I...

By Dan Savage - Mar. 14, 2024

Savage Love: March 14, 2024

I have a history of dating men I’m not attracted to physically or emotionally. I always found it weirdly comforting to know my boyfriend was obsessed with me while I...

By Dan Savage - Feb. 29, 2024

Savage Love: Feb. 29, 2024

1. Best advice on dating without resorting to apps? Go places, do shit, meet people, fuck ‘em. 2. I’m about to visit a gay nudist resort for the first time,...

By Dan Savage - Jan. 25, 2024

Savage Love, Jan. 25, 2024

I was seeing this guy for about four months. We were pretty much dating, doing all of the normal boyfriend/girlfriend stuff. Everything was going great up until last night when...

By Dan Savage - Jan. 11, 2024

Savage Love: Jan. 11, 2024

My boyfriend recently broke up with me. He confessed that he has been battling an addiction to orgies and couldn’t show up for our relationship in the ways I needed...

By Dan Savage - Jan. 4, 2024

Savage Love: Jan. 4, 2024

I’m a 28-year-old woman and I’ve never had a boyfriend or sex. I didn’t focus on dating in order to prioritize my education, career and mental health. I am doing...

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